Hi there!
I’ve been out of practice in this subject. Let’s say I like a woman who’s on her early 30s late 20s and I’m on my middle-early twenties.
I find her super attractive but I don’t know how to tell if she likes me, and if she does, what to do next to figure out if she’s just flirting or if she would like something else.
Before, I have attracted women by just being me, or they were younger so I would show them stuff and they would find me super interesting. Then we would go out or something and I would try and make my move given the chance and the moment.
But with this girl, it’s really hard to tell. She smiles a lot to me, she looks for me sometimes at my office or when there’s a social gathering. We had fun at this artist talk and I figured we could have fun together. But whenever I talk to her, she seems to know everything I wanna talk about, she’s really smart, and the conversation just ends all of a sudden, and it’s really hard to fuel it back up, like, if we didn’t have anything in common.
Also, how do I flirt? I’ve lost touch 
I just smile back, or wink, I don’t know how physical to get. I’m latino, and between hard core latinos, you can just hug and kiss whenever, there are obviously super conservative girls also, I’m a really conservative guy, I really need to be comfortable to hug or even try to kiss, but once is on, It is ON! But some european and american girls are super protective, and you can tell that they like you, but whenever you get physical, like a back rub, or a hug by the side even, they interpret it as a deprave move or something, hell I do when it happens to me (by Homos or desperate girls)!
Should I try and invite her to go for dinner? or catch a movie? Damn! The thing is that I fear that maybe it dies really fast and we don’t get to have fun! How do I loosen up and just look forward to have a good time?!
I think this question is too general, but if you could share your own story. And please, contribute well, looking at all aspects.
Chosen Answer:
dont treat her any different from the way ou treat other girls more your age. What u described sounds great to me – rub, winks etc. don’t worry she is game from what I can tell.
A woman likes a man to be a man even if he is younger. So do your usual stuff – show things etc. and anyway a younger man feels a lot sexier to smart girls. So don’t worry – she’ll make sure you both will have fun before it dies out.
by: ?
on: 27th May 09
9 responses so far ↓
1 Petite Priincess // May 25, 2009 at 10:54 am
ewww
2 Cole MurchlewSkI // May 25, 2009 at 10:56 am
go for it
3 ally // May 25, 2009 at 10:56 am
thats gross.
4 Another Way to See it // May 25, 2009 at 10:57 am
If you make age an issue, it won’t work. Approach her like any other woman, she will be flattered and take it from there.
5 GenMischief // May 25, 2009 at 10:57 am
Well be honest and direct. And do forget she has the whole “baby raper” thing to deal with. Its a whole different psychology for a woman to date a younger man, than men to women.
Its awesome shes smart! Value that resource. Try to take her somewhere more intimate, like an evening walk in the lights by the river walk (if you ahve something like that near you) or cook her a candlelight dinner with some nice wine. Im sure shell tell you which direction to head. Woman are great for tellign you what they think, you just have to listen.
1′ Honesty
2′ Intergrity
3′ fortitude.
6 Sammy R // May 25, 2009 at 10:58 am
there’s nothing wrong with that. I personally like guys a year or two younger than me which is a HUGE difference when im 16 and they’re 14/15. Act like you usually would. This last year i’ve liked 5 guys who were all freshman (year younger) i didn’t advance toward them, but last year i was with a guy a year younger than me and we had more chemistry than i thought possible. He was more innocent in terms of life lessons and work but more experienced sexually. Most of my friends in my grade are guys so it’s easier for me to go with a year younger because i’m so small
7 Karni // May 25, 2009 at 11:02 am
dude i dont think you need any tips, old women like toyboys. just work your charm and she’s yours.
8 Tina // May 25, 2009 at 11:03 am
dont treat her any different from the way ou treat other girls more your age. What u described sounds great to me – rub, winks etc. don’t worry she is game from what I can tell.
A woman likes a man to be a man even if he is younger. So do your usual stuff – show things etc. and anyway a younger man feels a lot sexier to smart girls. So don’t worry – she’ll make sure you both will have fun before it dies out.
9 Dagon Midoa // May 25, 2009 at 11:08 am
Your probably 23 and she is most likely 30 like you said. Uh yeah!
Well you know why they say girls like older guys and if you are liking this older woman than you are most likely getting the same feeling any girl would around an older guy. Its mostly hormones no doubt about it. It like they are mysterious when they are older or something and maybe because they look better with age.
I say go for it and talk to her. As long as you are not picky on age difference like me you will be ok.
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