This girl I like gives me mixed signals. I go to a dance studio, and she is my dance instructor. When alone around her, her body language is positive around me. She smiles, waves, makes eye contact with me, laughs at some of my jokes, and we have a good conversations where we banter back and forth. She even touched me on the arm during a conversation where it wasn’t necessary for her to do.
But acouple of days later when among others/a group of people she hardly ever talks to me or smiles to me, while with others she smiles, talks to and even laughs at times from what I can see. I do notice that sometimes when I am talking or dancing with other girls, I notice her looking at me. If I look at her, she usually looks away, or down and away.
I have also seen her brush down the back of her skirt bottom(but) when she is in front of me after she looked at me. Also I have noticed at times her body pointed at me when she is standing on the side of the dance floor, while I’m dancing with another girl.
Sometimes when I’m dancing with another girl, she will grab me right away to dance after. Also one time after dancing with another girl during a dance lesson, she said if I enjoyed my dance lesson in a mean angry tone. I get a feeling like she’s jealous, but I could be wrong. When she dances with me though, she doesn’t talk, look at, or smile to me at all, and I can’t get a conversation going with her at all.
Does she like me or attracted to me at all? I’m rather confused as sometimes I think she likes me, while other times I think she doesn’t like me. I like her, but am rather confused if she likes me. Any help and comments would be appreciated. Thanks.
Yes! Mixed signals!!!
She wants you to know she likes you but does not want other people to think she does.
Is she a lot older? How old are you?
She could just be a really nasty flirt – ie playing with you so you fall for her – so she gets the satisfaction that she made someone “like” her.
Hope she is not that sick.
Either way – it is not normal behavior.
When you genuinely like someone – you treat them well whenever.
I think someone here said that she may not want to mix work with pleasure?
We all the stuff you have just described happened at her work place right? So that can’t be it.
I am going with three options.
That she does fancy you – but does not want anything else.
Else she does fancy you and wants you to make the first move.
Or that she is a sick dog – that plays with peoples feelings.
on: 25th May 09