Most of them like jerks. They complain to me about a jerk, and go out with me then they go back to a jerk. Ive been broken up with for being nice quite a few times and it is really frustrating. Now I have a hard time building up confidence to even talk to a woman. What should I do?
Chosen Answer:
quit dating stupid women.
by: JustMe
on: 3rd November 08
15 responses so far ↓
1 Sweet cherry // Oct 28, 2008 at 2:11 pm
Just be yourself I would never date a jerk. And girls do not like guys who are fakers
2 animalLOVER. // Oct 28, 2008 at 2:12 pm
Don’t be too needy, but still be yourself! You don’t need to transform into a jerk for girls to like you!
We just go through a “bad boy” stage, where we like rebels, and @S$ holes. But we get over it eventually, so don’t sweat it!
Good luck!
=)
3 <3~*Lia*~ // Oct 28, 2008 at 2:13 pm
well then, there just the jerks. just tell yourself you deserve better. they’ll realize soon that they shouldn’t have broken up with you and they’ll dump the jerks eventually. just be yourself. tell yourself your confident and act it. forget about your past and im sure you’ll rebuild your confidence.
4 Emily B // Oct 28, 2008 at 2:13 pm
Well i am one of those date a jerk kinda women and i actually think that if a nice guy dated me if he didnt act like i was helpless, i would want to stay with him.
My advise, Keep being the same person you have always been, one day all these girls will be crawling back to you…
5 Sonia // Oct 28, 2008 at 2:13 pm
be yourself and crack some jokes
6 cominup7@sbcglobal.net // Oct 28, 2008 at 2:14 pm
if the women u mess with keep going back to jerks, then maybe you should hang out with smarter women…you aren’t the problem, trust me…
7 terrible towel // Oct 28, 2008 at 2:14 pm
I don’t know mank,the dating rules have become so stupid,these crazyass women now think that if you care about them and don’t do stupid things your weak and not manly.just wait they will tell you,god help them!
8 gr8ful_one // Oct 28, 2008 at 2:14 pm
pick better women to go out with …
9 JustMe // Oct 28, 2008 at 2:14 pm
quit dating stupid women.
10 brightpinkgoldfish // Oct 28, 2008 at 2:16 pm
Yip along with no showing off and a good sense of humour always works
11 MeToo // Oct 28, 2008 at 2:16 pm
Put the past behind you and be you! The more fun you seem to be having, and the more you seem not to care, the more she may begin to care. Don’t go too far with that, though. If you care about a girl and she makes it clear she cares about you, spend some time together. Don’t be rude to her. Hmm…it’s a double-edged sword. Basically, try hard without trying too hard. It’ll make sense eventually, I promise.
12 Temi // Oct 28, 2008 at 2:17 pm
Am sure some girl out there isn’t looking for a jerk jerk to keep a girl., so patience, or just be a
13 Gremlin // Oct 28, 2008 at 2:18 pm
don’t be nasty because some guysm do that it gives the wrong message….but when a girl is nasty to a guy she liks sometimes it makes her irrasistable….
14 DuTcHGyrL // Oct 28, 2008 at 2:18 pm
Just be yourself and keep your confidence. A confident guy is very sexy. Just make sure your not those clingy guys. Too nice is a turn off too. Like I said be yourself and don’t act like your a servant to a girl.
15 bidemgetem // Oct 28, 2008 at 2:43 pm
Well bro im 41 and i have 3 kids i’ve been with my wife for 26 yrs im not a pro but i’ve got 5 sisters and a 17yr old daughter.Wemon are like men if they know the’ve got you they dont want you but if you do what you did to get her you will never lose her. look dude nice is a good thing be polite open doors let them know your a gentelmen but have a bit of fire suspence about you cause if she is going to go you need to make it real hard for the next guy to follow your steps then she will know she fucked up. wemen need a man that will stand up to a confrentation dont have to be a bad ass just tough enough to make them feel good to be around you that does not mean be fighter bully stand up to them so they know your not just kissing there ass for ass (not phsically but stern about feelings) i mean if you dont agree tell them so you will get to know her just as the same she will get to know you she might not be right for you a lot of them arnt dont worrie and your heart will know but she has to feel the same way unforthenly it hurts to find the right one just keep going
good luck
p.s. go for girls that you know you will have something in common with and if all else fails go for the best looking chick at the place your at, cause nine out of ten times most guys are too arrigant and she wont like them, or there just like you and are affraid to talk to her. But remebrer be strong not weak, she needs a strong man, thats what her dad tought her. confindence is the key to all relationships on both halfs.
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