For a year, I did my best to get close to a woman…she was 38 and I was 47….taking her out to eat, going shopping together, spending time with her, went to church with her, you know. We never got past hugging and sociable kissing. She was my masseuse and told me technically she could not get involved with her clients. She told me she was not attracted to me, but her eyes and her body language told me otherwise…but she may have had reasons for not getting closer; one of which she had tumors in her uterus. Eventually I stopped seeking her out, stopped calling her, because it was time to move on. She had been divorced three times; I had been divorced twice. Was she afraid to get involved? Did her tumors play a role? Or was she actually not attracted to me? What do you think?
Chosen Answer:
she was scared. three divorces are three too many for most. the tumors could have been another reason, but i’m willing to bet that if you did all that stuff with her, she probably liked you just enough to be afraid of getting involved with you.
by: That Guy Drew
on: 1st June 07
6 responses so far ↓
1 Audrey T // Jun 1, 2007 at 3:12 am
Stop pondering. Just move on…
2 Anthony F // Jun 1, 2007 at 3:14 am
I don’t know why you can’t accept what she said, that she was just not attracted to you.
3 Trouble // Jun 1, 2007 at 3:15 am
talking is the easiest way to find out your answers, it could be all of the above……..or none of the above………if you don’t want to worry about it for the rest of your life, then just talk to her
4 that_guy_drew // Jun 1, 2007 at 3:18 am
she was scared. three divorces are three too many for most. the tumors could have been another reason, but i’m willing to bet that if you did all that stuff with her, she probably liked you just enough to be afraid of getting involved with you.
5 jackmeeko // Jun 1, 2007 at 3:23 am
there are a lot of what ifs tony but why try not to nail 1 down what you need to do is move on my freind try and let the past stay in the past your a young guy still whats for you wont go by you, think of it as you gained a freind dont be shallow and just drop the women simply because you failed to get what you wanted out of the relationship always remember never burn bridges you never know when you might have to cross them again give her a call just to see how she is you must wounder if she getting on alright with her tumers
6 jason w // Jun 1, 2007 at 5:38 am
just move on.appreciate the valuable you already have
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