ok, first things first…when you see her the first time you gotta be able to say “hey…i’d hit”
That means you are physically attracted to her but that could range from a little to alot. Personality picks up from their
She has to be able to respect you as the man. In public she has to be able to show she’s sexy but sexy just for you…her body language, how she lets you speak and what she says to encourage your image. When you have a goal she encourages you to go for it and does anything in her power to help you reach it…your success is my success and vice versa. She gotta be educated and always acheiving better for herself, a hard worker… It would be cool if yall like the same things like football or games. She has to have her own hobbies though…so that yall have time apart. She cant be expecting you to spend all the time with her because you cant miss someone if you are around them all day…you cant tell someone how your day is if they experienced the whole day with you. Unless she sees you with a girl in the bed, or kissing another girl, overhearing you on the phone…hard core evidence that like a confession or something that you are cheating, she shouldn’t be arguing with you about who you been with or where you are going (you are a grown man, it’s ok to have female friends as long as you are appropriate) She should honestly be able to walk into the room where you and another girl are having a conversation, and join the conversation.
She gotta be able to cook…but so should you (I think chores should be 50/50) She should cook things that are good, but also sneak things in that are good for you so you know she cares about your wants and your needs. I also believe in 50/50 on bills. It’s nice to be with someone who doesn’t NEED you. If you were to break up with her, she would be fine to get her own spot (and emotionally able to keep it moving…not everyone is made for everyone and when things aint benifiting the both of you, you gotta move on)
No arguing. There is a such thing as a fair argument…if both of you are yelling, no one’s listening. Its ok to walk away if things are too heated to discuss at the moment. (when men are not very close to a woman it doesn’t get much further than that but we are talking about the ideal woman now right)
I would let you talk first, as my man, you can talk first. I wont interrupt you.You can talk until you have nothing else to say. Then I will talk. I expect that same respect though and when I’m done talking you can comment again…No bringing up the past. Talk about the subject at hand because the past is dead and gone and thats not what we are arguing about. Ends the disagreement fast… Then theres nothing like angry sex…lord. I dont want to get suspened for the things I can say about this part of a relationship but just keep in mind: omg ur so big, Im about to climax, ur the best I ever had… But thats between the two of us and I dont know what yall care about but I swear I dont want my business all in the street
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agree agree and agree
especially on the respect in public bit – ive dated some sexy girls, and it hurts when they flirt with other guys in front of u!
arguing too – get the past out of the way with
therez certainly not that many “perfect girls” out there tho – all the chickz ive met this year have been 100% bangable and then a total let down once i got to know them better
Girlz might have to deal with a lot of sleazy guyz/but guyz have to deal with a lot of scummy girls too!
by: sadfsdfsadfasdfd
on: 12th October 08
5 responses so far ↓
1 ... // Oct 11, 2008 at 5:18 am
agree in some parts and disagree in others
yes i read all of that
2 damien_bryson1985 // Oct 11, 2008 at 5:34 am
agree agree and agree
especially on the respect in public bit – ive dated some sexy girls, and it hurts when they flirt with other guys in front of u!
arguing too – get the past out of the way with
therez certainly not that many “perfect girls” out there tho – all the chickz ive met this year have been 100% bangable and then a total let down once i got to know them better
Girlz might have to deal with a lot of sleazy guyz/but guyz have to deal with a lot of scummy girls too!
3 David C // Oct 11, 2008 at 9:33 am
Agree all of it.
4 Whatever souls are made of his & mine are the same. // Oct 11, 2008 at 10:27 am
This may sound a bit feminist but maybe that’s what I’m aiming for. First things first I can look sexy but it ISN’T just for my man. I do it to purposely attract other men. The key to making any man want you is to make other men want you more. Guys love a girl who can have anyone she wants. If no guys are hitting on her, the guy would start to wonder.
Secondly, you are making me feel like the woman is to come second in the relationship (i.e. as my man, I’ll let you talk first) now I am in total disagreement of that statement. That is why it’s called conversation not a planned debate.
If the woman or man wants to bring up the past they should be able to. I’m not talking about what happened before you met, before your relationship but when you’re speaking of your relationship the only ‘past’ a woman should be referring to is their past together. So when talking about the ‘past’ it should be something pleasant that they experienced together.
All in all I do not agree with most of what you said. It’s actually kind of dig rating to women. Sure, I agree that a woman should be able to support herself but if she’s married to a man she should be emotionally attached to him because they are together in a union where they are supposed to be one person. So yeah, his emotions should affect hers considering his emotions are her emotions.
Sorry, your idea of a perfect woman is definitely not my idea but hey whatever floats your boat! You sound like my mother.
5 nelly01756 // Oct 11, 2008 at 11:51 am
My fiance always tells me I’m the most amazing, perfect girl he’s ever been with or seen. And let me tell you, I don’t do all of that. I don’t believe that’s how you become an “ideal girlfriend” or at least, not in mature relationships. I believe to be in a perfect relationship it takes understanding, communication, compatibility, maturity, and support. You’ve listed some scenarios which were true, but only a couple. It seems like you are trying to tell people that you are the most perfect girlfriend or something? I don’t know. But I do know that I’m very happy in my relationship and that it takes ALOT more than what you just said.
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