ok, first things first…when you see her the first time you gotta be able to say “hey…i’d hit”
That means you are physically attracted to her but that could range from a little to alot. Personality picks up from their
She has to be able to respect you as the man. In public she has to be able to show she’s sexy but sexy just for you…her body language, how she lets you speak and what she says to encourage your image. When you have a goal she encourages you to go for it and does anything in her power to help you reach it…your success is my success and vice versa. She gotta be educated and always acheiving better for herself, a hard worker… It would be cool if yall like the same things like football or games. She has to have her own hobbies though…so that yall have time apart. She cant be expecting you to spend all the time with her because you cant miss someone if you are around them all day…you cant tell someone how your day is if they experienced the whole day with you. Unless she sees you with a girl in the bed, or kissing another girl, overhearing you on the phone…hard core evidence that like a confession or something that you are cheating, she shouldn’t be arguing with you about who you been with or where you are going (you are a grown man, it’s ok to have female friends as long as you are appropriate) She should honestly be able to walk into the room where you and another girl are having a conversation, and join the conversation.
She gotta be able to cook…but so should you (I think chores should be 50/50) She should cook things that are good, but also sneak things in that are good for you so you know she cares about your wants and your needs. I also believe in 50/50 on bills. It’s nice to be with someone who doesn’t NEED you. If you were to break up with her, she would be fine to get her own spot (and emotionally able to keep it moving…not everyone is made for everyone and when things aint benifiting the both of you, you gotta move on)
No arguing. There is a such thing as a fair argument…if both of you are yelling, no one’s listening. Its ok to walk away if things are too heated to discuss at the moment. (when men are not very close to a woman it doesn’t get much further than that but we are talking about the ideal woman now right)
I would let you talk first, as my man, you can talk first. I wont interrupt you.You can talk until you have nothing else to say. Then I will talk. I expect that same respect though and when I’m done talking you can comment again…No bringing up the past. Talk about the subject at hand because the past is dead and gone and thats not what we are arguing about. Ends the disagreement fast… Then theres nothing like angry sex…lord. I dont want to get suspened for the things I can say about this part of a relationship but just keep in mind: omg ur so big, Im about to climax, ur the best I ever had… But thats between the two of us and I dont know what yall care about but I swear I dont want my business all in the street
agree agree and agree
especially on the respect in public bit – ive dated some sexy girls, and it hurts when they flirt with other guys in front of u!
arguing too – get the past out of the way with
therez certainly not that many “perfect girls” out there tho – all the chickz ive met this year have been 100% bangable and then a total let down once i got to know them better
Girlz might have to deal with a lot of sleazy guyz/but guyz have to deal with a lot of scummy girls too!
on: 12th October 08