Basically I need some help from anyone who has some experience of women lol because I dont have a lot and always read body language wrong and I have really low self esteem.
I go to my local bar, and there is a girl who works there. She has only been there for a few months but I was instantly attracted to her when she first started. I havent really talked to her maybe a few words really simple like, but one time I told her she looked nice. She smiled and thanked me but I psyched myself out and couldnt think of anything to say after and ducked out of the situation. Everytime she serves me she always smiled and was nice, the week later after I psyched myself out she changed her clothing style (although that maybe because she felt more confident I dont believe it was because of me) and looked really nice, but this time I didnt even say anything to her because I already convinced myself that shes not even remotely interested in me. When I left she didnt have her usual smile or kindness towards me, but that could be anything unrelated to me.
So I dismissed that as nothing to do with me. But this week I went in, and now when she serves me she looks so annoyed with me and doesnt even smile at me now. Its driving me crazy because I dont know why she looks angry at me when I dont even know her name, havent even had a decent conversation with her. If its because I was ignorant of her signals then its unfair because I have such low self esteem that I would never think a really cute girl would even think about me. Please help me. Any advice on what I should do, what you think she means with her body language etc would be grateful, otherwise I will confront her because there is no reason to be rude to me as I havent been rude to her. If I knew she even liked me a little I would definitely talk to her, but I cant recognise any signals as being definitive/semi.
ima qurl so I think I know whats up with her:) she probally chanqed her way of dressinq up for you some qurls do that….to qet a boys attention she wanted you to compliment her ……which you didn’t…you should really ask her thouqh ?? Aha:P and also you miqht be confusinq her cause you said she looked nice and didn’t say anthinq after that…..awkward:D but yeah just talk to her more
on: 1st August 11