When ever I see my neighbor I feel butterflies in my stomach and I get hot. He’s a sweet guy and very nice. I haven’t had a real conversation with him and we only greet each other. I’m very attracted to him. He randomly pops up into my head and I get excited and turned on to the point that I need to masturbate for it to go away. I get a little worried that he may pick up signals from my body language and sometimes when both of us our driving into the parking structure I wait for him to get out of his car and leave just so I don’t feel hot and bothered..lol Even when we might pass each other he gives me a large amount of space to pass him and I do the same thing to him as well..
I’m very picky and haven’t felt like this with a guy in a long time. Sometimes I sense him checking out my butt when I walk pass him.. but that may not mean anything. He’s in my head and in my fantasies.. I’m just afraid to talk to him and get rejected :/ but I may need to and hopefully this thing will go away.. I feel like he may feel the same way or am I being delusional? Whats even more weird is when I see him my body wants to gravitate to him like a magnet but I have to fight it and keep it together! lol I get fantasies in my head like pushing him up against the wall or jumping on him lol. I’m an attractive woman who has no problem getting a guy but there something about this guy.
Weird!! Who knows? ..I’m tired of feeling like this! It’s been a year!! Please share your input
-gpctman you have some valid points but it is 2012 and there are some women that do hit it and quit it.
He is your neighbor. What if it doesn’t go well? Will you be stuck living next to him from then on? What if he is a nutcase? What if he has a girlfriend? How much baggage does he carry with him? . . .
Lots of questions to ask just to satisfy an urge eh? You are the vulnerable sex and need to be careful.
But that’s not what you are asking is it?
If we had to answer all of the above every time we want to get to know each other the world simple would stop going around right?
Suggestion would be to find commonality. Perhaps you can arrange to meet him at a party or get together with friends which gives you a chance to get to know him a little bit better. Once you determine he is for you then my advice is to go for it! I guess all you have to do at that point is to make sure he is on the same page as you. lol!
on: 2nd February 12