First, do women often forget that most men are just plain nervous or scared when it comes to approaching attractive women, talking, and getting things started?
Is it true that men are looking for direct and indirect signals to tell him what he needs to know about a woman before he even gets involved with her, and those signals are listed below:
1. Physical Health – Men are often attracted to women of a certain physical size, shape, etc., in general. But do you know exactly why this is? It’s not because these sizes and shapes “look better.” It’s because men are wired to identify signs of Fertility and Youth in women. And the good news here is that a perfect hip to
waist ratio is NOT the only way to indicate to a man that you are “Youthful” and “Fertile.” Personal “energy”, attitude, body language, and fashion can all act as indirect indicators of these things as well.
2. Emotional Well-Being – It’s no secret that men like to make fun of women for being too “emotional.” And while this is in part fun, this common male habit shows the existence of something deeper – that among men there is a strong belief in the importance of an emotionally “stable” woman. Men who are interested in relationships are EXTREMELY critical of how a woman handles herself and her emotions, because to them it says everything about how a woman will be when they’re close and connected and what’s in store for him.
3. Sense of Humor – This is the most subtle determinant of how a man will see a woman. When a woman is funny, laughing, or making jokes, it’s an indication of her high level of self-esteem and social status. When a man sees a woman smiling or laughing, or when a woman is funny and playful with a man, it lets a man know on a subconscious level that she is someone he can respect, “An equal”. And this can make a woman VERY desirable.
Chosen Answer:
All very very true.
by: fantasy.man46
on: 31st October 08
5 responses so far ↓
1 Bob // Oct 29, 2008 at 7:16 pm
it all sounds right to me.
2 Whoo Hoo // Oct 29, 2008 at 7:16 pm
all true but i am and intence computer geek. i even made my own computer! 15 sec proudness
3 Chernobyl Engineer // Oct 29, 2008 at 7:16 pm
Yes, I am nervous talking to attractive ladies. I am nervous talking to you. What does that say about you?
4 fantasy.man46 // Oct 29, 2008 at 7:36 pm
All very very true.
5 tholeeder // Oct 29, 2008 at 7:38 pm
some are bold and to the point,some are shy and aloof.men are attracted to the women they think they can attract. many will not approach a woman they feel inferior to because the woman is more attractive or have an intimidating personality. if he is insecure he will seek a woman he considers less attractive than himself.or one he can dominate.men are every bit as emotional as women,but the difference is men inhale it you don’t see it.a sense humor will go a long way to encourage a shy man . so will friendliness
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