Can you tell that a guy has charisma and personal magnetism when he first enters a room?…You might have seen that person for the first time and that person might even not know anyone out there but is sitting in the corner by himself…but radiates this sex appeal or coolness…is it about good looks or something inner?..Most people say its all about self confidence and the way you carry yourself that attracts people to you…Even most women say that looks don’t matter that much and that they can tell by first looking at a guy whether he has got that special something even before he opens his mouth…How about if that guy happens to be a hideous looking guy who’s fit for a horror movie but posseses heaps of confidence?..and sitting beside him is a guy with movie star good looks and a great body..But his body language and facial expressions all convey lack of confidence and insecurity and self consciousness……..Which one of the two would you go for?….
This is an excellent question! There is no way to tell how a person is just from him walking into a room. You can kind of tell, but until he opens his mouth there is no way to tell. A person can be a good actor and make anyone believe that he is charismatic and charming when in fact it’s all an act. Those are players! I’ve met a few. I’d rather meet someone who is not too nice to look at but is sincere and a good person.
by: Caroline S
on: 5th October 09