I had always fear to love white woman. Not because there white its the statistic that bring the stereotype to life like O.J. Simpson, Susan Smith, Kobe Bryant.
I’m not a racist all, but I was afraid if I had been with one I can be accuse of rape and being consider betrayer to my on my race. I am young african american male who has never been in a relationship before. I have been attracted to many black women, but all of them did not like me, because it wasn’t about looks. It was because I don’t portray a gangster image or don’t abuse women. I love my own race of women, but many look at me and say like a caucasian male. However, some who does loves me turns out to be white women. I mean she has treated me Better than any woman has ever been in my life. I love her too. I think she is the most Beautiful and sweetest woman I had ever known in my life but I’m afraid bad things can happen to us, because of our race. I am so happy she came into my life, but my fears get to me. What should I do? She doesn’t even know how I feel.
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1 ugly_forensics // May 29, 2009 at 6:38 pm
wear really dark sunglasses all the time
2 THE DUD // May 29, 2009 at 6:39 pm
Follow your heart
THE DUD
3 KemmAziki // May 29, 2009 at 6:39 pm
Excuse me I’m a black girl who doesnt like thugs or abusive men. And i know tons of lovely white women try befriending more white females first until you are comfortable then see how it goes
p.s answer mine:
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4 Savannah // May 29, 2009 at 6:40 pm
You woulnd’t be accused of rape or murder or something like that because you’re black, you’d be accused if you DID IT. My best friend’s mom is white, and her step dad is black. And they’re so amazing together. They’re the perfect couple. If you love her, be with her. Race DOESN’T matter.
5 IWIU // May 29, 2009 at 6:41 pm
I hear ya, I have a really nice Asian girl, treats me better than any other girl.
But it’s harder for you, because you are black and she is white and whites and blacks can cause problems.
I wish there was a city of all mixed couples, and only mixed couples, that would be great, and we could all live happily together.
I guess you have to just take a chance and do what you want, or be alone the rest of your life.
6 cutie18 // May 29, 2009 at 6:43 pm
don’t think about what others are thinking. you only have one life. make use of it. you only have one chance. make it the best!
7 Hideki // May 29, 2009 at 6:46 pm
dont be a coward if you really like(or love) her you will overcome you fears
8 Starshines // May 29, 2009 at 6:54 pm
Wow, I cannot believe that you would even think a white woman would accuse you of rape!
That is ridiculous!
Any woman could do that to you if you pick the right one!
For you to fear that specifically a white woman would do this makes you a racist.
You would also be racist if you allowed your race to make you feel like you betrayed them by dating a white woman.
If you are in love and it feels right, then do you seriously think your fears will come true? Your real friends and family will accept her regardless and should be happy for you that you found someone who loves and respects you.
You could let your fears control you and let you live a miserable life of what was or what could’ve been or you could take a chance and see if this lovely white woman is destined for you.
I wouldn’t let the color of her skin stop you or what your friends/family might think.
Are you attracted to her?
Does she treat you well?
Then what are you waiting for?
It’s time to live in the now and not the past.
Yes, you’ll get judged but love is stronger than that.
Good luck!
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