so i have a crush on this woman and we have been hanging out because we are planning an advertising campaign for an event together. I notice we get a long really well and our meetings are really sociable and drag on for hours. I have really come to like her and enjoy being around her. She’s pretty down to earth and if anything romantic happened between us I’d be open to dating seriously.
Anyhow, I can’t tell if she likes me. We’ve been having meetings at my apartment and her house(she lives with her folks) and I notice that she does things around me like stroke and play with her hair, initiate touching, bump me, solid eye contact, and moving her hair and body really close when getting up and sitting down. I wasn’t sure where she stood though cause she is pretty friendly and professional. so I used sensual body language and a relaxed attitude while testing her personal space a little by pretending to have excuses to get closer and she didn’t seem to mind and we’d touch legs hands, shoulders etc..
I thought there was a good chance that she might be attracted to me too. But then today we just had another meeting at my apartment and she was doing those things. But I noticed she sat leaning back with her legs pointed towards me but crossed away and she was not making as much eye contact talking and her bag was between us on my couch.not good signs i know… instead of making lots of eye contact she talked while looking at some random spot in the air. I noticed this and thought I might be watching at her too intently or something so I tried not looking at her during the conversation for a while and I noticed that afterward her eye contact was pretty strong. When she left she bumped into me playfully but then i got the feeling as I walked her out to her car she was pretty much on her way instead of lingering though we did talk a bit. and then i went back out again cause we had mentioned meeting again tomorrow with another person and she was cool with it but i realized there wasnt any real reason to meet so even though i wanted to hang out it came out like i was kinda reluctant to. And when I said bye it was cool. And then when I had gone back in she called me again and I was all happy but it was just to ask for directions.
Anyhow Im kinda confused. During our meeting the conversation was still very friendly and animated and stuff and she also initiated touch by touching my hand and I returned it and there were times of feeling flirty or connected and close proximity, but it seemed like she was a lot less relaxed and connected than previously.
One thing to note was that todays meeting started off awkwardly on her arrival and she complained about feeling weird and being on her period. Could that have something to do with the mixed signals. I offered her some chocolate to calm her nerves a little, and over the course she got a lot more relaxed. We actually got a lot done compared to other meetings where we bullshitted and gossiped a lot more. Anyhow, I know I shouldn’t waste time analyzing all the little things so much reading into every little thing, but i guess it just annoys me that I can’t figure out objectively what the situation is.. I guess it might still be too early to tell either way. arg. i really don’t know.. So what do you guys think? What should I do next?
WE HAVE THE SAME USER NAME.
haha okay. anyway…
This is looooong but i persisted through the whole thing!
I would say it’s a 60/40 that she likes you so more than just a chance she does. It’s hard to say, though. I would ask her to do a business meeting over dinner or something where you can chat and have the pretense of doing business things. Then afterwards if you think it went well ask her out for drinks or a movie or something for like right after the dinner. If she says no that’s not for sure a bad thing, though.
Or maybe when you have a meeting have it at like 4 or 5 then ask her to go out to dinner after?
Something like that and see how it goes
You may have something going on here!!
PS: answer mine, please?? thanks
on: 27th March 10