I am 35 years of age, still a single man, and trying to build my confidence up, so I can attract a female mate. My confidence was damaged during years of bad childhood experiences at school, which I won’t go into detail. As a result of it, this meant I could not form relationships with younger women. So in the last 17 years, I have lost out to having a partner, along with other things in life, that I haven’t experienced yet. I realise now, I can never get those years back.
Accademically, I haven’t fulfilled my potential, but next year, I have set my sights on studying a computerized bookkeeping course.
At the moment, I’m attending a self-esteem course at college. I have experienced glimpses of confidence, but it dissapears a while later.
I also want to develop skills in boosting my sense of humour, composure, superior social and practical skills, Where can I get help to achieve those goals?
What other ways can I make myself more attractive to a woman?
i’m 22, still a virgin and only had one relationship. same problems as you really. i’m going into a anxiety management group as nothing has really worked for me so far as i’m extremely shy. it’s hard to meditate but research up on it and give it a go. every day i am developing more confidence from meditating, you feel different within and tend not to think of the person you’ve became but more the person you really are. trust me it’s worth looking into. www.centerpointe.com
on: 17th November 07