Hi there
I am 35 years of age, still a single man, and trying to build my confidence up, so I can attract a female mate. My confidence was damaged during years of bad childhood experiences at school, which I won’t go into detail. As a result of it, this meant I could not form relationships with younger women. So in the last 17 years, I have lost out to having a partner, along with other things in life, that I haven’t experienced yet. I realise now, I can never get those years back.
Accademically, I haven’t fulfilled my potential, but next year, I have set my sights on studying a computerized bookkeeping course.
At the moment, I’m attending a self-esteem course at college. I have experienced glimpses of confidence, but it dissapears a while later.
I also want to develop skills in boosting my sense of humour, composure, superior social and practical skills, Where can I get help to achieve those goals?
What other ways can I make myself more attractive to a woman?
Chosen Answer:
i’m 22, still a virgin and only had one relationship. same problems as you really. i’m going into a anxiety management group as nothing has really worked for me so far as i’m extremely shy. it’s hard to meditate but research up on it and give it a go. every day i am developing more confidence from meditating, you feel different within and tend not to think of the person you’ve became but more the person you really are. trust me it’s worth looking into. www.centerpointe.com
by: con_siglieri
on: 17th November 07
4 responses so far ↓
1 asianmob2004 // Nov 15, 2007 at 1:11 pm
Do a boot camp. Purchase the Mystery Method.
2 con_siglieri // Nov 15, 2007 at 1:13 pm
i’m 22, still a virgin and only had one relationship. same problems as you really. i’m going into a anxiety management group as nothing has really worked for me so far as i’m extremely shy. it’s hard to meditate but research up on it and give it a go. every day i am developing more confidence from meditating, you feel different within and tend not to think of the person you’ve became but more the person you really are. trust me it’s worth looking into. http://www.centerpointe.com
3 Robbie // Nov 15, 2007 at 1:19 pm
vi think you just need to cheer up a bit. I don’t know what you’ve been threw but i think your first step should be to learn to for get about your past and once you have done that I’m sure woman will notice you a lot more. If not try a dating site and find a woman that likes you and move on from there. all the best!
4 Daniel // Nov 15, 2007 at 1:36 pm
You can take all the classes you want but they can only tell you what to do you must take those steps. You need to not see them as the current scary objects you see them as now but see them as another person who just wants to talk to you. Simple changing the way you think about females is the key for you I think. And you need to believe in yourself.
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