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I want to figure out how to attract an older woman, maybe at around 40. I am 20 years old, and I am a cute college kid. I am also very smart and sensitive. But I am very interested in attracting women of that age, 40ish or so. Many times the problem is I don’t know how to go about it. In a way, I do not know how these women think or how they feel. They just seem different than people my age and I can’t fully understand them. My question is, how do I start when trying to attract a woman of this age…and also what are the needs of a 40 year old, as well as what would she see in a cute 20 year old college kid (who is smart as well)… Some guidance would be appreciated, especially coming from the perspective of older women out there that want to provide comments.
Thanks a lot,
Ken

Chosen Answer:

Well, i’m 37 so hopefully that’s close enuf for you! It depends on what kind of relationship ur lookin 4. I think most older women don’t c themselves in a serious relationship with a younger guy, cuz seriously, what would u have in common? But if ur looking for something casual or friends w/benefits, i think u’ll find a lot of older women out there will be receptive. Keep in mind women of this age r at their sexual peak, so being 20 ur close to urs. I think (in my opinion) older women want 2 feel desirable and appreciated. Pay special attention 2 her physical needs. Other than that, all i can tell u is i currently have a younger guy, only a few yrs older than you that i’ve hooked up with several time. I almost blew him off cuz of the age thing, but changed my mind. He’s the 1 who found me on a dating site, and he just seem so cute and sweet, i figured what the hell, y not, and now i am so glad i changed my mind cuz he’s so eager to please, much more that older guys!
by: Wende K
on: 1st July 08