I have a work friend who is married and I’m very attracted to, she is the nicest person I have ever met. Her body language is always inviting and we connect amazingly well. Am I reading her wrong? how do I tell her I want to be with her?
Thanks Kitty, what you said has been running around my mind. I guess I’ll have to be with her in another life
If you tell her, how do you think she will react? I think it probably will change the work relationship and not for the better. She is married and if she feels something for you, it will have to be on her terms if she tells you. She is in a committed relationship. Her actions maybe inappropriate or just honest flirty but, if you want to keep her as a friend, I think you need to set these feelings aside. Hey, it you want to fantasize about her, so be it, but for it to go any further…it would have to be her move.
on: 21st October 09