In a nutshell… I’m really attracted to a coworker of mine. We work in the same firm and he’s a very handsome, tall, earnest type of guy, and he has a great body. He’s always saying things “why is a woman so beautiful as me is single” and “when you and I going out?. I know it’s a really cheesy line that guys use all the time but I feel like a silly school girl with a crush of this guy. Also we shouldn’t flirt with each other because we work together.
I’m 26 and he’s 32 with a son and he got divorced about a year and a half ago. I honestly think he’s interested in me too because of his body language. I really would love to go out with him.
Just an opinion question, what would you do in my situation?
I am going to answer as a Christian and you are free to accept or not. This man looks very attractive to you on the outside, but he has just betrayed a lifelong commitment to another woman, who by God’s law still has dibs on him. He now has baggage, and a SON, that you can never really be mom to. YOU , so far, are free from such broken promises..wouldn’t you rather find someone as free and unencumbered? If you date this coworker now, doesn’t that send just one more message that it is ok to get a civil divorce, and abandon your commitments? He DID love his wife once, now he says NO through his divorce….what makes you think YOU will be treated any differently?
on: 14th April 10